Issue 22: Changing Habits
THE LEAP
BY QUANTUM ORANGE
GROW, EXPAND & EVOLVE
ISSUE 22 | CHANGING HABITS
Each week The (Quantum) Leap summarises a key aspect of success into what you need to Think, Feel and Do to create a personal shift.
We become what we repeatedly do.
~ Stephen Covey
THINK
Have you ever stopped to think about the way your habits impact your life?
Few people are aware that nearly 40% of what they do on a daily basis is habitual.
And that once habits form, the brain stops fully participating in the decision making process.
Why? Because it doesn’t have to anymore.
Habits are a system the brain uses to streamline your activities - and it will use them to automate particular behaviours without you even thinking about it.
The problem with that becomes apparent as soon as your brain installs a habit you didn’t deliberately design. If you pick something you know serves you, habits are an incredibly powerful tool. But if you’re not consciously designing them, your habits will bring you undone.
So, how exactly do they work?
In The Power of Habit, Charles Duhigg explains that MIT researchers discovered a three-step neurological pattern that forms the core of every habit.
The first step is a cue. It’s a trigger that tells your brain to go into automatic mode and prompts the behaviour that follows. The second step is routine, which is the behaviour itself - the action you take. The last step is reward, which helps your brain determine if a particular habit loop is worth remembering or not.
Habits with immediate rewards are easy to pick up, whereas those with delayed rewards are more difficult to commit to and maintain. Think about how easy it is to check your phone compared to exercising more.
Think about a habit you’d like to change and ask yourself:
- When did the habit begin?
- How has the habit changed over time?
- When do you typically engage in the habitual behaviour?
- Is there a specific location that triggers this habit?
- What else is usually happening in your life when the habit occurs?
- Does your behaviour affect other people or facets of your life?
- What does the habit do for you?
FEEL
What do you habitually do to mask uncomfortable feelings, e.g. boredom, loneliness, sadness, dissatisfaction?
When looking at specific habits, ask yourself:
- What am I gaining from this habit?
- How happy (or unhappy) am I as a result of this habit?
- What is the reward?
- When I consider changing this habit, I feel…
- Is that emotional response appropriate or strong?
DO
Since habits are a formula the mind automatically follows, one of the best ways to break habits is to reengineer that formula by creating a new habit loop.
Consider the habit you wanted to change and ask yourself:
- What will be the cue?
- What will be the new routine or behaviour?
- What is the reward you want?
- Visualise the new habit creating positive impact in your life. Do this at least 2-3 times.
You can plan multiple routines and try them out before settling on the one that is most effective. The reward does not need to be elaborate - the goal is simply to establish a positive association with putting the new habit into practice.
Action the above plan!
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The habits you have today shape who you are tomorrow.
Are you happy with yours - will they shape the type of person you want to be?
Or are they working against you?
Habit change can be hard, because habits naturally shortcut your thinking.
But the brain is built for change.
If you know what to do, you can transform your entire life in just a few weeks by mastering your habits.
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